___Talk to each other and listen.
___Remember that previously unresolved problems may surface.
___Support good things your friends/partner/family have done.
___Go slowly when when re-establishing your place with friends/family.
___Curb any desires to take immediate control.
___Go easy on stories about where you've been/what you've done. Expect a little envy.
___Give each other a little space.
___Expect that things that worked before might not work now.